You are responsible for you are

One of my friends told me that he got failed in life; he got bored in life due to living in the environment of losers and lazy people. Then so I told him "No you are just using trick to cover your mistake and unsuccessful things'.


Most young people today blame to someone or somebody for their failing in lief. If failed in job, they complained it is due to lack of resources; if failed in exam, they said it is due to teacher's incomplete teaching; if failed in business, said it is due to market and authorities. Actually it is only due to their mistake. I believe one would not eat shit if the people around him are eating shit. Sorry if I am rude, but it's the true. We know what is right and what is wrong. We know where is our comfort zone, then so we give reason and complaints not to move out of comfort zone.

We got lazy to study, one would said the subject is very boring. Actually the subject cannot get bored and one is just feeling boring. If someone doing mistakes, it is his life and responsibility. If you are doing mistakes and unwholesome things and deeds, it is your responsibility. You will have to repay for what you got and you will have to suffer for it which is good or bad.

Therefore you better stop complaining for our incomplete life, born-weaknesses, and poor situation. You can change your future, but you cannot change our past. Actually you wrote your own history through your past existence in the word. So your own present life is what you did in the past. It is the teaching of Buddha. However, from now on, you should do the best as you can; take the responsibility and then accept the result even if it is good or bad. If you are doing the best having positive thinking, your result wouldn't disappoint you ever.

Author: Aung Kham
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